When Preschoolers Whine
You know what it’s like when your little one starts in with that whiny tone. It can drive even the calmest parent crazy!
When preschoolers begin to whine, the most important thing to do is not to give in.
- If you do, it will teach your child that whining is a good way to get what they want, and they will do it again, and again. Instead, let your child know that you expect them to speak to you without whining.
Acknowledge your child’s efforts when they speak without whining. If your child keeps whining, stay calm and ignore it until they speak properly. If you think your child is really overwhelmed by a situation, though, they may need a hug or a back rub to break the cycle.
Here are some suggestions from our experts to prevent whining:
- Watch for situations where your child may get bored, and prepare for them.
- For example, have a bag of toys for your child to play with while you’re on the phone.
- Teach your child the difference between whining and asking properly.
- Try to pay attention to your child when they talk to you in a normal voice.
- If you ignore your child when they are asking for something nicely, your child may start to feel that the only way to get your attention is to whine.